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Unhealthy signs of a love & relationship

By Ashish Pandey relantionship, relationship counselling, breakup,rejection,

Unhealthy love& relationship is being powerless, selfish and enabling. It has no boundaries. Unhealthy love is unconditional and yet contingent. It is immature, irresponsible and dependent. Unhealthy love is urgent. There is a desperation behind it which produces manipulation and compromise of self. Unhealthy love is a pissing contest, a tug of war, a mute silence and a kick stand. It is obvious. Unhealthy love promotes the false self and stunts growth. It is a drug.

Signs You Have an Unhealthy Relationship with Love

No transparency
Lack of sharing
No commitment or refuse to commit
Lack of trust
Fear of setting relationship goal
Too much arguments & criticism
No freedom or individuality
Tendency to change people
Controlling attitude
No mutual respect
Not giving value to the partner
Lack of compatibility with interest and hobbies
Person in taking you for granted
Being afraid of affection intentionally doing things in expectation of something in return
No intention of growth in the partner
Frequent playing of mind games
Lack of communication
Lack of emotional intimacy
Inability to forgive
Dishonesty and secrecy
Passive aggressive behavior
Substance abuse
Physical abuse
Sexually focused
Your partner complains about you to their friends or family.

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