Unhealthy signs of a love & relationship

Unhealthy signs of love & relationship (fake relation)

Probably the most obvious sign of an unhealthy relationship with love is that you’re not happy unless you’re in a relationship. Yes, plenty of people prefer being in relationships to being single. There’s no denying that love and relationships are great! But if you feel like it’s impossible for you to be happy without being in a relationship, that can be a telltale sign that you don’t have a healthy relationship with love.
Unhealthy love& relationship is being powerless, selfish and enabling. It has no boundaries. Unhealthy love is unconditional and yet contingent. It is immature, irresponsible and dependent. Unhealthy love is urgent. There is desperation behind it which produces manipulation and compromise of self. Unhealthy love is a pissing contest, a tug of war, a mute silence and a kickstand. It is obvious. Unhealthy love promotes the false self and stunts growth. It is a drug.

Signs You Have an Unhealthy Relationship with Love

  • No transparency
  • Lack of sharing
  • No commitment or refuse to commit
  • Lack of trust
  • Fear of setting a relationship goal
  • Too much arguments & criticism
  • No freedom or individuality
  • A tendency to change people
  • Controlling attitude
  • No mutual respect
  • Not giving value to the partner
  • Lack of compatibility with interest and hobbies
  • A person in taking you for granted
  • Being afraid of affection intentionally doing things in expectation of something in return
  • No intention of growth in the partner
  • The frequent playing of mind games
  • Lack of communication
  • Lack of emotional intimacy
  • Inability to forgive
  • Dishonesty and secrecy
  • Passive aggressive behaviour
  • Substance abuse
  • Physical abuse
  • Sexually focused
  • Your partner complains about you to their friends or family.